To many people, the phrase "boken-heart" means the consequnces of an act of deceit, lack of trust and above all, an act of being jilted. To others, broken-heart is a kind of pain experienced either by male or female who had been cruelly left by their partners.
Even to Oxford, it's an act of being overwhelmed with sorrow or grief. And to me as a person, it has to do with loosing one's trust and confidence in one's partner. Or what I can catigorically call the tragic or cataclysmic end of relationship between the oposite sex.
Generally, after the word " i love you" what follows is either broken-hearts or the other. Many partners have gone through bad experiences in their life and yet they are still very much okay. Some, as a result of their hearts that have been broken once, they find it difficult to give their love to others most especially, the opposite sex. Some even hate hearing the word " I love you" because they've lost confidence and trust in it.
Have heard of a friend's sister who having been jilted once, never pray to have anything to do with man. According to her, having relationship with man is nothing doing but deciet, dishonest and above all, breach of confidence and trust. But my fear arises when I discovered that to some girls, all these are rubbish, nonsense, hokun, and they never give a shit if they're jilted. It only takes them some hours t think about it and get on with their normal activities whereas some have even remained dejected and unbalanced having experienced "broken-heart". It takes them a very lng period of time to think, think and think before accepting any other offer because the experience is there to speak for them.
Now, my question is that, does it necessarily need to feel dejected to the extent of remaining unbalanced if at all one experienced a broken-heart..? When there is life, there's hope of getting through eventually.